The first comment that comes to mind is, Ouch! On a second reading I think wow! what an interesting life. When we are young we may fall madly in love. It's very, very hard to evolve both in parallel and at the same speed. We soon realize that often the love just ebbs away softly like the outgoing tide and what is left is only the madly. If you manage a divorce without animosity you are better than most. I married two redheads ( Some guys never learn) The first parting was after eleven years, my current redhead, after thirty-nine years now has grey hair. Yes, some hard times and many concessions' later I realize that our prayers do not give us what we want, but what we need.
I once offered some romantic advice to my teenage son, who said, "No offense, Mom, but not sure you're the best person to give relationship advice." He was alluding to my two divorces, which, I told him, made me one of the best people--because I'd learned so much from my experiences! I see that wisdom all through this piece. So glad you shared it.
The simple things are also what stick for me. The sound of a voice. The smile over the breakfast table. The expression of our life is always open to negotiation. What do we want to do with this short time we have left here?
Yes, exactly… which makes me think, and add, that committed relationships are not strictly romantic. You can have very meaningful friendships that would nurture your life in a very deep, meaningful way. And you can even have a meaningful interaction with a stranger.
I am so happy (and honoured) to hear Sara!! You have been on my mind actually when I wrote it - as an inspiration!!! I admire you, Owen and your beautiful family so much!! ❤️
Haha Richard. Thank you!! My grandma at some point was described as the Hungarian Sophia Loren. I don’t know about that but I do find her beautiful. Of course I’m mostly referring to what she is inside… :)
This is beautiful Michael. And yes, I have put a lot of effort into making sure my separation was with as little animosity as possible, because I am a child of divorced parents…
The first comment that comes to mind is, Ouch! On a second reading I think wow! what an interesting life. When we are young we may fall madly in love. It's very, very hard to evolve both in parallel and at the same speed. We soon realize that often the love just ebbs away softly like the outgoing tide and what is left is only the madly. If you manage a divorce without animosity you are better than most. I married two redheads ( Some guys never learn) The first parting was after eleven years, my current redhead, after thirty-nine years now has grey hair. Yes, some hard times and many concessions' later I realize that our prayers do not give us what we want, but what we need.
Fair play to you Imola. Have a great new week.
Michael
I once offered some romantic advice to my teenage son, who said, "No offense, Mom, but not sure you're the best person to give relationship advice." He was alluding to my two divorces, which, I told him, made me one of the best people--because I'd learned so much from my experiences! I see that wisdom all through this piece. So glad you shared it.
Thank you Rita! I feel very similarly to you. My divorce only made me appreciate a really good relationship.
This! Was so beautiful, it brought tears to my eyes because of its beauty. Thank you
So happy! I wrote it while sick and almost didn’t post it. Now I’m glad that I have.
Is no one going to say it? Those are two good lookin people : )
The simple things are also what stick for me. The sound of a voice. The smile over the breakfast table. The expression of our life is always open to negotiation. What do we want to do with this short time we have left here?
Yes, exactly… which makes me think, and add, that committed relationships are not strictly romantic. You can have very meaningful friendships that would nurture your life in a very deep, meaningful way. And you can even have a meaningful interaction with a stranger.
I love this post. Sometimes it is the simple things that are the most inspiring. You capture that in your post : )
I am so happy (and honoured) to hear Sara!! You have been on my mind actually when I wrote it - as an inspiration!!! I admire you, Owen and your beautiful family so much!! ❤️
Haha Richard. Thank you!! My grandma at some point was described as the Hungarian Sophia Loren. I don’t know about that but I do find her beautiful. Of course I’m mostly referring to what she is inside… :)
This is beautiful Michael. And yes, I have put a lot of effort into making sure my separation was with as little animosity as possible, because I am a child of divorced parents…
You too have a wonderful week Michael!